The Fashion Project

This day is designed to spread awareness about domestic abuse and violence. It could be abuse from a spouse, parent, sibling, or other family member. Domestic abuse is insidious because many people don't even realize that what is happening to them is abuse, and more commonly, they feel too afraid or ashamed to tell anyone about it. This is especially a problem for children and young adults, who feel deep loyalty toward their family members, even though they hurt them.

How can you make a difference? Well, first, don your purple hijab on February 13th. If anyone comments, compliments, or inquires about your color choice, inform them about the problem of domestic abuse. Secondly, get informed about domestic abuse.

Understand Domestic Abuse

Knowing what domestic abuse is, is the first step toward doing something about it. This kind of abuse occurs when one member of a family tries to dominate the other. Their purpose is to gain and maintain control over their partner. They may use fear, guilt, shame, isolation, and intimidation. They may also use violence or the threat of violence to their partner or people their partner cares about. It can happen in any intimate relationship, and can be committed by either gender. It happens between all races and in all cultures. Want to know more about the signs? See this very useful website: http://helpguide.org/

Can I get help for myself or my loved ones?

Of course! Here are a series of links with help lines, advice, shelters, and support groups.

* http://www.thehotline.org/ (US domestic)
*http://www.womensaid.org.uk/ (UK domestic)
*http://www.nationaldomesticviolencehelpline.org.uk/ (UK and international)
*http://dahmw.org/ (Help line for women and men)
*http://alcoholism.about.com/cs/abuse/a/aa990414.htm (Getting help)
*http://helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_help_treatment_prevention.htm (Learn more about prevention)

And put on those purple hijabs!!!